something that “bespren” said that led me to think…am i destined to be alone…just because of what has happened in my life…am i ever going to be labled as the “Hello I’m single mother…you can’t take me seriously nor have a happily ever after with me?
do men care if you’re a single mom or not?
do men at first send feelers or fantasize about you but at the instant they found out that you’ve had a child suddenly think you have a contagious disease…or worse…they just think you’re good in bed but not someone to spend the rest of their lives with?
where is my prince in rustic armor and is it ok if my son rides on his big white steed?
why should men care i if am? why should it even be a factor? shouldn’t I be the one to decide if I should let you enter in my life knowing that aside from me I am also in charge of another’s life which is more important than mine? Shouldn’t I be the one who should think if If you can ride my pumpkin ~ poof~ carriage?
I am a single mother…label me as that with all its consequences and whatevers…I happy being one…my life would be less complicated without men…and maybe..just maybe..that I am to find someone who is good enough..who is man enough that I can allow to enter my world…then that’s just faBelleloush!…care to enter? care enough to be happy?
Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous