something that “bespren” said that led me to think…am i destined to be alone…just because of what has happened in my life…am i ever going to be labled as the “Hello I’m single mother…you can’t take me seriously nor have a happily ever after with me?

do men care if you’re a single mom or not?

do men at first send feelers or fantasize about you but at the instant they found out that you’ve had a child suddenly think you have a contagious disease…or worse…they just think you’re good in bed but not someone to spend the rest of their lives with?

where is my prince in rustic armor and is it ok if my son rides on his big white steed?

why should men care i if am? why should it even be a factor? shouldn’t I be the one to decide if I should let you enter in my life knowing that aside from me I am also in charge of another’s life which is more important than mine? Shouldn’t I be the one who should think if If you can ride my pumpkin ~ poof~ carriage?

I am a single mother…label me as that with all its consequences and whatevers…I happy being one…my life would be less complicated without men…and maybe..just maybe..that I am to find someone who is good enough..who is man enough that I can allow to enter my world…then that’s just faBelleloush!…care to enter? care enough to be happy?

Carrie: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous


6 Responses to “”

  1. Anonymous Says:

    i think the question here is, “when will we ever be contented?”

    nobody was destined to be is up to you if you chose to be what you’ve said, you’re happy so be it..

    and don’t worry, you’ll probably find someone who want to spend the rest of his life with you..and your son..or maybe you did already but you let that someone out of your life…

  2. Anonymous Says:

    Dear Anon,

    No one is ever content with their lives..You’ll always find yourself pining about something or someone.

    ‘maybe you did already but you let that someone out of your life…”….don’t be smart…maybe you’re just being a friend or kind and thanks for that but i don’t appreciate these kinds of comments especially from people who HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HAPPENED

    ps: im sure you have a name. please use it. thanks -Belinda

  3. Kitongzki Says:

    Belinda, just go with the flow… Someday, somehow, you find yourself having a “Happily ever after”…

  4. erm… this is a bit of a shock… i know i shouldn’t be commenting but the “usi” part of me says i have to… πŸ˜› you guys have been a part of both our lives and we’ve seen only 1/4 of the real story which is the happiest part of your relationship… i know you have reasons and i know that you guys are grown-up enough to make the right decision… i do pray that you remain friend for the sake of your little angel…i do hope you both find what you are looking for…pag nanganak na ako…inuman tayo πŸ™‚

  5. i agree with keith ms belle..don’t be discouraged with such comments..alam nyo naman dito sa office, there are lots of tsismis..cguro that person only hears one side..u will find pa din naman ur prince ms belle..i know someone na she found her prince kahit na may anak na sya..i might not know the true story but just wanted you to know that i ako ng blog mo remember? hehe! smile lang lagi =)

  6. Hi, Belle!

    Not because single moms tayo eh nde na tayo deserving maging happy…of course deserving pa den tayo noh! Whatever happened…remember were still winners because we strive to be good moms to our kids. And they’re with us. πŸ™‚

    Kaya mo yan! I have 101% faith in you. πŸ™‚

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